Is it weird ?

Is it weird to have an adult best friend ? Unrelated of coarse , cause it's normal and very healthy to be close with the grown-ups in your family . I more mean , a man or woman who isn't otherwise connected to you becoming your best friend . Some one you go to with all your problems . This of coarse can get weirder depending on the age of the child/teen and the age of the adult , and it may change in certain peoples eye if the gender is different ..

But no . I have really found a best friend in a grown woman . I am 16 , she will be 34 this April . She has a son my age and a daughter a few years younger than us . She is the high school best friend of my boyfriend's mother , which is how I met her . She moved here with her son last year in March .. a couple weeks from now it will be a year . She was like hell on wheels . Loud , colorful , opinionated , fun , fierce , flirty , just a ball of awesome . She is funny , clumsy , a great cook , she is compassionate and heartfelt , helpful , and gives good advise . She will tell you how it is and if you don't like it ,"Tough shit!" . She don't give a damn ;)

I love to quote her , she has such comical a brash statements . She is a complete character all to herself , and I have loved every day of this last year with her . She has helped me through a lot . Problems with family , my relationship , other friend ships . She is never judgmental , she has been through so much in her life she feels as if she has no room to judge another person ( as any one should cause no one has room to judge ) . She is just amazing inside and out . She has been through hell and back and she finally had enough and broke down and cried to my boyfriend and I . I honestly didn't know how to handle it . My friends and family cry all the time , but SHE ... oh no . She was strong . One of the strongest women I know .
But you know what ? Everybody has their moments , and this was hers . She has been there for me through so much this past year . I just thought I would let her know that she is truly my best friend .
She had a baby at a young age , got married young , had another not long after . She is a great mom , raised two healthy , happy , strong willed kids , who are growing into a fine young man and woman .
 I know this may sound kind of backwards coming from younger to older , but I am really fucking proud of her . She came back to California with nothing , she left her life , and anything that didn't fit in her jeep , back in GA and came here and made something of herself .




As I write this she is working on her degree is cosmetology , and will be graduating sometime early summer . Thank you Marinello for giving my best friend a new start and a brand new lease on life . I am always going to be there for her , they same way she is there for me <3
Plus , we got a matching tattoo ... So , this biotch is stuck with me forevaa (;
Nelle ♥